Lingering lunch

I got a text from my friend Stephanie that she missed me even though I saw her on Friday :) It is nice to be missed and have friends want to see you!  We decided to go to lunch.  We invited Laura too.  We have a lot of fun together!  We ate at Qdoba and then went to Starbucks.  I got hot cocoa. We were out for about four hours.  It is so nice to chat and laugh together. 

I saw this post on Facebook yesterday.  It is proof that Murphy’s law definitely rears it’s ugly head for military spouses.  So much snow this month while Joe has been gone. 

I took Haylee to the rink this morning at 6. Then dropped her at school around 7:40.  This was the sunrise on my way home.  The beautiful snow covered prarie. 

We saw a B-52 taking off.  Amazing. 

Picked Haylee up at 5:30 - it was snowing like crazy I love that she was catching snowflakes on her tongue. 

Snowing to beat the band! 

I gave her, her Valentine’s gifts from dad. 

He called me two weeks ago and asked me to order her flowers from the florist on base. He was having a hard time getting ahold of anyone.  

He told me what to spend and sent a picture of what he had in mind.  ❤️ In the end the florist on base wasn’t helpful so I went to Walmart and got these beauties tonight.  She loved them!!! 


Double the flowers we would have got for that price at the florist.  :) 

Duct tape explanation

Proof it’s the end of the day, I didn’t even blog about the duct tape title!  Lol.  

Last week Keva and I headed to the temple. The weather in Minot was horrible, tons of blowing snow, bad roads - Keva and I decided we would see how the weather was south of Minot and if it didn’t clear up we would just say forget it. We said a prayer we would be safe and the roads cleared up like we had hoped.  We chatted and laughed and had some great spiritual discussions on the way to Bismarck.  As we were getting of the high way in Bismarck just a few miles from the temple, we hit ice going into the turn and slid into a truck waiting at the light.  Good news we were all ok -us and the truck driver, and the sherif was really nice. The car was banged up but driveable.

The headlight on the drivers side was hanging by a cord so we decided to go to target and get some duct tape.  While at target we put together a sunshine care package for Keva’s oldest daughter Katie who is in her first year of college.  When we came out of target Keva asked me to look up  TJMaxx and get directions. As she was taping the headlight a lady came out and asked if she wanted help. Keva’s reply? “No thanks, I’m just duct taping my life back together.” She and the lady both cracked up. It was at that moment I realized the check engine light was on so I decided to climb out and make sure the car wasn’t leaking any fluids. So here is Keva almost sitting in the snow in a dress no less and I say “hey the check engine light is on” before I can finish she says something like  “yeah, no kidding”  We cracked up again.  If ya don’t laugh you will cry right? We had fun shopping and went to lunch and laughed some more before heading home.  

This pic was last week too.  Our microwave broke. We only bought it seven months ago!  So lame.  I still wasn’t cleared to carry heavy stuff (I had loaded the old microwave to the car to take back earlier that day but Haylee would NOT let me help her with this) 

It wasn’t super heavy just awkward. As she rounds this corner and has to lay on the car she says at this moment “I hate gravity!”  Lol.  She is a good kid and funny to boot!  She and I will survive when Joe is gone.  Girl power!!! 

  

A duct tape kind of week

I’ll probably try to be concise here and maybe make bullet points instead of typing out all the things. I need blog more often. 

The weather is crazy. We got 11 inches of snow last weekend, four more a couple of days later and 5 more yesterday.  It’s too cold to melt at all of course so our snow in the backyard is about 2.5 feet deep.  On the patio it’s more like 4 feet just because of how it drifts there. 

These two pictures are after the 11inch storm. 

We call this area The Huhmann Peaks ❤️

It is seriously cold.  

After a quad ward activity at the stake center. This snow pile was almost as tall as Haylee. 

Lots of snow at the big blue house. 

Friday night Russ, Lisa and I went to see The Upside. It was really good!! 

Joe’s pictures from his Hoover Dam tour.  

I miss his face! 

Saturday night was a Maintenance Goup Spouses dinner for spouses of leadership. It was so fun!  

We went to visit a friends puppies.  Tried to talk Joe into letting us get this little sweetie but for 1500.00 he was not super on board.  To be fair he absolutely does not want a dog. 

She was a snuggly sweetie!! 

Hard to tell in the photo but this is a sun dog. You can see the rainbows on either side of the sun. Except there is no rain.  It is the light reflecting off of ice crystals in the sky.  Haylee and I call them snowbows.

Me after my doc appt Monday.  I am healed!  Yahoo! 

It was snow globe snowing. 

Haylee at her private ice skating lesson as she prepares for competition. 

After the additional five inches. 

See that green box back there? That’s one of those electrical boxes.  Almost buried. 

Did I mention it’s cold?  Lol! 

Cold, cold, cold!

Joe is in Vegas for 4 weeks. Up until this Point we have had a fairly mild winter. But, no sooner had he left then the cold started moving in. Last weekend bro blizzard conditions with white out visibility Monday morning. Then last night the polar vortex started pushing our way. Today the temperature was -20 or so when I woke up with a feels like temperature of -48. Tomorrow is supposed to bring -32 by 8 a.m. with the wind chill hovering in the -60 area. That said they actually canceled school. Even the post office is closed for all of North and South Dakota tomorrow. It is 63° in Vegas today Joe owes me big time LOL. Tomorrow we will be huddled up watching movies and drinking hot chocolate. It’s nice to have an unexpected day off :-) 

Sunday we stayed home from church because the weather was too unpredictable. Haylee shoveled the few inches of snow we got since I am still not supposed to use my abs.  She didn’t complain at all.  She is a good kid.  


Today I went to lunch with Keva and Stephanie.  We had a great time as always and could’ve stayed there for hours chatting it up. 

I also took Haylee to the doctor today. She has been complaining about knee pain for several months.  She has had some unexplained pain and lots of cracking and popping in her joints for a few years.  Her knee pain has gotten to the point that it really bothers her.  I have suspected EDS for her for a long time but things have been ok and a diagnosis doesn’t help a great deal.  However, with her knees getting worse and her getting older/closer to being off mom and dads insurance I decided we will head down the road of getting her diagnosed.  At least this time I know what I am doing. After talking with her doc today her doc said to me “you have amazing orthopedic terminology” I told her I am an expert.   lol.  I don’t look forward to having another kiddo diagnosed but it is important to have it docimented, if that is the case for her.  All EDS-ers are different. Haylee’s case is certainly less severe than Sierra’s.  I am thankful for the blessings that come through trials for us all.  And pray always that we will endure them well. 

Stuff

You would think recovering from surgery I would be blogging like a crazy person since life is dull. But it hasn’t been that way at all.  Between Joe being off for a week and my friends visiting and going to lunch I have been a busy lady. :) Had my post op a week  ago and things look good.  She didn’t clear me to do anything but drive which was kind of a bummer. I have still been good.  Just started doing some small tasks and am handling things ok.  We ran around quite a bit today and I was achy tonight. Mostly I feel really good.  Yay!  A few more weeks before I am ready to roll! 

The last couple of weeks we have seen moose. ❤️❤️ finally!  There are three there! 

We have been doing the come follow me curriculum for individuals and families.  We are 2 for 2.  Joe leaves tomorrow for Vegas though.  Hopefully we can figure out how to keep him involved.  We each have a notebook to take notes.  It doesn’t feel like a it’s going super well but I have some new ideas and I am really happy everyone is participating!! With obidience comes blessings. 

Haylee loves skating. She takes lessons once a week and is getting better all the time. 

We went to a hockey game -2 weeks post surgery and I paid for it the next day.  But we sat right at the glass and had a great time! 

We attended our Chief’s group holiday party. They do it in January since there is no way you would find a free weekend for all the Chief’s in December. It was a white elephant party and we decided to give an autographed photo of ourselves as a joke.  It was a big hit. 

Me and my cute friend Amber. Her hubby is a Chief and she is a Chief select!!! 

Our friends Brian and Sommer who were ecstatic to end up with our picture.  Brian hung it in their house the next day!!  lol.  They are going to print this pic next year and give it as part of their gift next year.  🤣

Me and Steph. She is one of my faves!

Joe and I being photobombed my Russ.  Lol. 

Our group. These are some great people!!!  

Yesterday we went to church and watched football.  We were so happy to see the Chief’s in the AFC championship game.  

They lost in overtime due to dumb rules and a couple of bad calls.  We are huge Patrick Mahomes fans.  He is going to be a legendary QB.

Also, it was super cold!  I wore snow boots and leggings to church for the first time.  

Speaking of church. I am struggling with my calling.  I need to pray about it and have faith. It has been really hard for me. 

Last pic is Joe’s stuff packed tomorrow.  He is headed out of town for a few weeks.  We will miss him. 


Just kidding this is really the last one. We got a call this week from the people in charge of that blue and white plane.  The PAG is looking for a new Chief and they reached out to Joe.  It is a five year commitment.  The job is amazing but the timing just wasn’t right.  We did not feel peaceful about saying yes.  It would have required us to move this summer or early next year. Haylee will be a Senior in the fall.  Even though she said she was ok with moving, moving is really hard for her.  When we decided against taking the job we felt really good about it.  Our Air Force adventure will continue. Had we said yes all the adventure would have been removed from this crazy life we live. Doing the AF One job would have put Joe at 28 years. We are eligible for retirement in 2020 (24 years of service) -we don’t know that we will retire but we like having the option.  Life is crazy and unpredictable. Lol. We love it! 

Surgery

Friday the 28th of December I had a total hysterectomy.  The doc took everything but my ovaries.  For the last several years I have been having some decent pain with my periods and ovulation. Last fall (2017) I went to a GYN in Missouri and asked to have a uterine ablation done. She did some tests to see if I was a good canidate and informed me I had some fibroids one of which was very good sized and that ruled me out from having the ablation.  She recommended I have hysterectomy at that time but I was working and Sierra was getting ready to have shoulder surgery and I just didn’t have time. The doc also told me that I was a higher than normal risk of being opened up for my hysterectomy due to the size and location of my largest fibroid. I just wasn’t on board with such a major surgery and the long recovery.  After we moved to North Dakota I decided to go in and get another opinion about whether or not to have a hysterectomy.  My doctor recommended we do another  ultrasound to see if my fibroids had grown. Come to find out they had more than doubled in size! I decided the time had come to have it all taken out.  My poor uterus was the size of someone who was 18-19 weeks pregnant!  Yikes!!  I wanted to wait until after Christmas to have my surgery done so the 28th was perfect.  I wasn’t really nervous just ready to have the whole thing over. The surgery went really well and my doctor was able to take everything out laparoscopically. It was a struggle though and my surgery lasted almost three hours instead of the 90 minutes she had planned.  I had a really hard time waking up from the surgery, which has happened to me before. I don’t like to remember to breathe. They got me back upstairs in same-day surgery recovery and I was happy to see Joe  again but still super sleepy and on oxygen since I couldn’t keep my sats up by myself. After a little bit I wanted to get up and walk and try to go pee.  Joe and the nurse walked on either side of me to the bathroom where I tried and tried and tried to go. My bladder had forgotten how to work. I did that process a few times and still couldn’t go. All the while my blood pressure was climbing and climbing. When my blood pressure got up to 183/108 the nurse decided to call my doctor. The doctor prescribed a really strong pain medication for me so that I could relax. Also, I was really nauseous.  The sight or smell of any food made me super sick.  That was the case for a few days after surgery. The doc said my bladder being so full is what was making my BP high.  The meds worked and I was able to go just a tiny bit. It brought my blood pressure down enough to go home. The worst part that night was the gas that they had filled my abdomen with. It was making my back and shoulder hurt so badly I could not lay down. I slept sitting up for two nights.  I was also dealing with some severe lower back pain. I ended up calling my doctor and she said it may have been the way I was positioned during surgery. We kept using a hot pad and I continue to taking my Percocet. Other than that I have felt really good. Only the occasional pain in my abdomen but my back is better. I don’t have any energy and small tasks make me want to take a nap. Joe and Haylee have been amazing at taking care of me.  Joe Especially. He waited on me hand and foot for the first few days cooking me whatever I wanted to eat and always checking to see how I was feeling. He helped me shower dried me off and re-dressed my incisions. He also dried my hair for me. I told him if I could teach him to use a round brush we’d be in business. He has been amazing and I am so thankful for his tender care. I took a shower by myself today and dried my own hair and I had to take a nap afterwards LOL. 

This pic is us before surgery. 

New Year’s eve HD and Kassi did their gender reveal. We found out that our new grand baby is a boy!!!  We are so excited to spoil this new little man. He is going to be Mimi’s best buddy. His aunties couldn’t be more excited! 

This is me four days post surgery. I put on a pair of leggings and did my make up. We even drove down to the mall and Joe pushed me around in a wheelchair the good part of that was I had found out that the baby was a boy so straight to the target baby section we went :-)

This was my Snapchat from this afternoon. It was the first day I was home by myself all day.  I don’t feel terrible just tired. I can see how it would be easy for someone to overdo it. I have strict instructions for my doctor not to do much of anything for a couple of weeks and I can’t drive until I see her on the 14th. I need it to be extra good as Joe is leaving me for a month on the 22nd.  I have promised myself I will take it easy even though I was really tempted to put in a load of laundry today.

I will update with more Christmas pictures soon. We had a great visit and everyone loved their gifts it was the best.